Stoning at ben's house now waiting for jin xian to arrive,for the past hour been slacking,eating junk food and wrapped potatoes for later.No idea what to anticipate,the most present problem,would be that most of the people going don't seem to understand that no dinner comes free,and they fking expect to just eat and go.

Me and ben are officially "Sai Kang warriors",i'm like a bull that pulls the cart,charcoal,drinks ice,u name it,i carry it.Ben's got food to prepare,and this is really dawning on me how tough it is planning and making things happen.Science question..how do you keep a chocolate cake from not melting into something unpresentable for 3 hours without a refrigerator.Gotta start paying attention in class...